Not even valid

Denial has at least two meanings. The first is a refusal to acknowledge or accept a concept. This is what is meant by being 'in denial'. Secondly, it can be a refusal to accept - though there may be acknowledgement - of something which is offered. While the second implies choice, the ability to turn down a proposal, the implied authority of one's decision; the first dwells on a lack of choice. We deny something that insists, and in denying we do not banish it, merely ignore it. Yet it is still there.